Book - The Present

Three Ways To Use Your Present Moments

Be In The Present
When You Want To Be Happy And Successful
Focus On What Is Right Now.
Use Your Purpose To Respond
To What Is Important Now.

Learn From The Past
When You Want To Make The Present Better Than The Past
Look At What Happened In The Past.
Learn Something Valuable From It.
Do Things Differently In The Present.

Plan For The Future
When You Want To Make The Future Better Than The Present
See What A Wonderful Future Would Look Like.
Make Plans To Help It Happen.
Put Your Plan Into Action In The Present.

Post Traumatic Dating Disorder (PTDD)

Dubbed by American relationship expert Lucia Demasi. It is said that Women with Post Traumatic Dating Disorder(PTDD) respond irrationally to small provocations in relationships. They assume the worst for no logical reason, based on what’s happened to them in the past. Post Traumatic Dating Disorder (PTDD) comes solely from dating experiences different from having "baggage" as it comes from any part of our life.


Five telltale signs you have Post Traumatic Dating Disorder (PTDD)

•Every time he’s 10 minutes late you think it’s over
•You’re always looking for signs of rejection
•You have flashbacks to prior similar situations
•You constantly jump to negative conclusions
•You’ve given up on dating – it will only end in tears

Taylor Swift - Teardrops On My Guitar

Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see
That I want and I need everything that we should be
I'll bet she's beautiful, that girl he talks about
And she's got everything that I have to live without

Drew talks to me, I laugh cause it's just so funny
That I can't even see anyone when he's with me
He says he's so in love, he's finally got it right,
I wonder if he knows he's all I think about at night

Chorus: **

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only thing that keeps me wishing on a wishing star
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do

Drew walks by me, can he tell that I can't breathe?
And there he goes, so perfectly,
The kind of flawless I wish I could be
She'd better hold him tight, give him all her love
Look in those beautiful eyes and know she's lucky cause

Repeat Chorus **

So I drive home alone, as I turn out the light
I'll put his picture down and maybe
Get some sleep tonight

He's the reason for the teardrops on my guitar
The only one who's got enough of me to break my heart
He's the song in the car I keep singing, don't know why I do
He's the time taken up, but there's never enough
And he's all that I need to fall into..

Drew looks at me, I fake a smile so he won't see.

Texas - Say What You Want

Twenty seconds on the back time
I feel you're on the run
Never lived too long to make right
I see you're doing fine

And when I get that feeling
I can no longer slide
I can no longer run
Ah no no
And when I get that feeling
I can no longer hide
For it's no longer fun
Ah no no

Chorus:**
** Well, you can say what you want
** But it won't change my mind
** I'll feel the same
** About you
** And you can tell me your reasons
** But it won't change my feelings
** I'll feel the same
** About you

What I am is what you want of me
Yeh, now that I'm not there
I took the tables away from you
It's turned that I don't care

And when I get that feeling
I can no longer slide
I can no longer run
Ah no no
And when I get that feeling
I can no longer hide
For it's no longer fun
Ah no no

Repeat chorus ** [x2]

I've said goodnight
Try to sleep tight
Ah just dream of me
Go close your eyes
Cause I've closed mine
The sun will shine from time to time
Oh, when you dream of me, yeh

Repeat Chorus **

Mariah Carey - Bye Bye

This is for my peoples
Who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby
Your man or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye
No, no, no

Mamas, daddies, sisters, brothers
Friends and cousins
This is for my peoples
Who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky
Cause we will never say bye

As a child there were them times
I didn’t get it
But you kept me in line
I didn’t know why
You didn’t show up sometimes
On Sunday mornings and I missed you
But I’m glad we talked through

All them grown folk things
Separation brings
You never let me know it
You never let it show
Because you loved me and obviously
There’s so much more left to say
If you were with me today
Face to face

Chorus:**
** I never knew I could hurt like this
** And everyday life goes on I wish
** I could talk to you for a while
** Miss you but I try not to cry
** As time goes by

** And it’s true that you’ve
** Reached a better place
** Still I’d give the world to see your face
** And be right here next to you
** But it’s like you’re gone too soon
** Now the hardest thing to do is say

** Bye bye
** Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
** Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
** Bye bye, bye bye, bye bye
** Bye bye

You never got a chance to see
How good I’ve done
And you never got to
See me back at number one
I wish that you were here
To celebrate together
I wish that we could
Spend the holidays together

I remember when you used to
Tuck me in at night
With the teddy bear you gave me
That I held so tight
I thought you were so strong
You’d make it through whatever
It’s so hard to accept the fact
You’re gone forever

Repeat Chorus **

This is for my peoples
Who just lost somebody
Your best friend, your baby
Your man or your lady
Put your hand way up high
We will never say bye

Mamas, daddies, sisters, brothers
Friends and cousins
This is for my peoples
Who lost their grandmothers
Lift your head to the sky
Cause we will never say bye, bye.

Repeat Chorus **

Ne-ne - Trip to HK (May 22 - May 25, 2008)

Hi, my name is Ne Ne. This is my first time flying. Guess where I am heading to? Well, my first flight is to Hong Kong & I got the window sit. The flight to Hong Kong takes about 3 to 4 hours long. Ouch my back hurts!... What to do cheap flight with Air Asia ;p Few hours later...



Upon landing in Hong Kong International Airport, the first thing I spotted was Fu Shan.

That dish serve is in mango flavour with pudding and pamelo! Aw, Delicious!



This is the place where I spend my first evening. Look, Victoria Peak! Its freezing up here, look at the heavy mist behind with absolutely anything but a view... How I wish to include more pictures if not because of the slow Internet connection.



It is very windy up here. I wonder what can I see from here?



Look this is my hotel room in Hong Kong, South China Hotel! & That's me lying on the bed! Ahh what an adventurous trip I have today.



Today is my second last day in Hong Kong... Aww how time passes by so quickly, like sand slipping through our fingers... Now that behind me is the Buddha statue in Lantau Island... To come here you will have to take a cable car ride across the river. Long way to go.



OMG, the stair behind is so long. I think I'll have trouble climbing considering the size of my belly!



After a long 45 minutes later, I'm finally at the highest area. Honey, look at how beautiful the clouds are behind me! How I wish badly you are here to share the scenery... Dont worry I'll be thinking about you ALL the time (@'.'@) ~ **Blush




** Hehe cant resist the temptation of putting my cute looks with the ticket I use to travel while I am in Hong Kong ;) Now THAT they say is the most affordable travelling ticket in Hong Kong! HKD 300 = 3 Days of travel on "ALL" tracks inclusive of 2 way tickets to and from the Hong Kong airport! Ooops also the deposits! By the way, this is my last day in Hong Kong. The picture is taken in the Hong Kong airport before I part with my travelling tickets. Muacks Hong Kong! I'm going to miss you.

** These are the only picture I can attach currently about my Hong Kong trip ;p Others? Maybe next time.

Rob Thomas - Little Wonder

Let it go, let it roll right off your shoulder,
Don't you know, the hardest part is over, let it in,
Let your clarity define you in the end,
You will only just remember how it feels.

Chorus: **
** Our lives are made, in these small hours, these little wonders
** These twisted turns of fate, time falls away,
** But these small hours, these small hours, still remain.

Let it slide, let your troubles fall behind you, let it stand,
Till you feel it all around you,
And I don't mind if it's me you need to turn to, we'll get by,
It's the heart that really matters in the end.

Repeat Chorus **

All of my regret, will wash away somehow,
But I cannot forgive the way I feel right now.
In these small hours, these little wonders, these twisted turns of fate,
All these twisted turns of fate, these twisted turns of fate
Yeah, times falls away

But these small hours, these small hours, still remain.
They still remain, these little wonders, all these twisted turns of fate
time falls away, but these small hours, these little wonders
Still remain.

Understanding Women

In the world of romance, one single rule applies to the men: Make the woman happy. Do something she likes, and you get points. Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.

You don't get any points for doing something she expects. Sorry, that's the way the game is played.

Here is a guide to the point system:

SIMPLE DUTIES

You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5) In the rain (+8) But return with Beer (-5)

You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)
You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)

SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS

You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a college buddy (-2) Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)

HER BIRTHDAY

You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2) And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours of your favourite team (-10)

A NIGHT OUT

You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)

YOUR PHYSIQUE

You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)

ENJOY THE 'BIG' QUESTION

She asks, "Do I look fat?" (-5) [Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)

COMMUNICATION

When she wants to talk about a problem , you listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)


Now what chance do you have???

To the fellas for info & to the gals for a good laugh!

Nick Lachey - I Can't Hate You Anymore

An empty room can be so deafening,
The silence makes you wanna scream,
It drives you crazy.
I chased away the shadows of your name,
And burned the picture in a frame,
But it couldn't save me.

And how could we quit something we never even tried,
Well you still can't tell me why.

Chorus: **
** We built it up,
** To watch it fall.
** Like we meant nothing at all.
** I gave and gave the best of me,
** But couldn't give you what you need.
** You walked away,
** You stole my life,
** Just to find what you're looking for.
** But no matter how I try,
** I can't hate you anymore
...I can't hate you anymore.

You're not the person that you used to be,
The one I want who wanted me,
And that's a shame but,
There's only so many tears that you can cry.
Before it drains the light right from your eyes,
And I can't go on that way.
And so I'm letting go of everything we were,
It doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.

Repeat chorus **

Sometimes you hold so tight,
It slips right through your hands.
Will I ever understand?

Repeat chorus **[x2]